For many parents, one of the most important things that they can do is get their kids involved in a fast paced sport. This can teach them important traits, such as self confidence, teamwork, and coordination, all of which can help them grow up to become more well rounded adults. For many people, one of the best sports that they could teach their kids is jiu jitsu. However, many parents find themselves asking the question: is there a reason as to why kids quit jiu-jitsu? While many may not even be aware of the fact that their kids want to quit until it is too late, surveys are beginning to help us understand why.
Both criticism and yelling play a very large role in the equation. If you child is not having fun, then there is nothing that you could do to make them have fun. Criticism and yelling can make the experience worse for everybody involved, as there is a huge difference between criticizing cruelly and cheering.
Another problem is that kids do not have any playing time. Kids need time to play and just have fun in the middle of the training session. Kids do not train in the same ways that adults do, and, as such, it is important for them to have their needs accommodated appropriately.
Too much overemphasis on winning can be another large problem. The kids do not need to be so competitive in such an unhealthy way. Focus on the fact that they do well, and that they can keep doing well with hard work and determination. Do not focus on whether they lost or won.
Poor communication with your kids can also cause rifts and problems. Make sure that they feel comfortable in their environments. They will be able to help you determine the best way to teach them, just by providing comments on what makes them feel comfortable.
Make sure that you do not focus too much on the mistakes. If kids are afraid of making mistakes, then they may also be afraid of performing in general. Teach them that mistakes and losing are both okay and a natural part of train. As long as they want to learn and get better, they will never have to worry about mistakes holding them back.
For a lot of kids, jiu jitsu needs to be fun. More often than not, with excessive drilling and training, boredom can become a factor. Even adults have difficulty sitting still and learning, so be sure to mix it up. Do not expect kids to learn everything so quickly, and be sure to encourage fun.
Another large problem is that kids may feel as though they are not learning anything. If this is the case, do not be afraid to go over what they learned in class. Show them what they learned and have them understand the lesson before they move on. Try to incorporate all of the aforementioned points into these review sessions as well for the best results.
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